Today, one of my fren ask me what is the particular things that need in love... Indirectly, what is love???.... In everyone point of view... Love is different... Some of them look love as a very brave things... Some of them takes love as a games... Some of them think that love is everything... Some says that love is suffering....
Some of people scare to fall in love again... They have been trough a very suffering ways in relationships... I do wanna share some experience of my fren to you all... Let us call her as ms.S...
She is a preety clever and preety gal... She has her 1st bf at the age of 16 years old... She is so young and preety... And she end up with a very sad ending... Its a pity of her.. I know that the fact will never change... At 1st, it is nothing... They start their relationship very well.. Then, they start have arguement... By days, the arguement they have increase... No matter how, ms.S just tolerate and let her bf to the winner... After a year, their problems increase... But ms.S still stand straight to protect their relationship till the end... Then, one day ms.S cant take it anymore... She start to lose confident towards her bf and also this relation... She end up her relationship at last... But that guy still stay close to her... He force her back to her... But ms.S dont want to continue this relation and she ran to Genting to work there and just want to start a new life... But the guy went to Genting to find her... And she give him a chance again... Then, they go back to the relation again... Then, problems comes and the problems is more serious... The guy hits my fren and force her to make love with him... It is a pity to a gal who is just having her the 1st relation... Her life just go on like this... She thought that problem can solve by talk things over... But things get worse... Now it is a impact towards my fren... Although she had already end this relation... But alot of thing will not turn back to the actual 1 or can return to normal... So,ms.S life just being ruin by the motherfucker...
At 1st, I m too do not understd why do my fren is so stupid till like that... That guy is so stupid and so asshole... Just a pervert... But she can love him so much... Now i understd why is it like that... Actually love cant be measure... dont need any reason... dont need anything to have with it... It is kinda feeling that couldnt explain... cant be explain... I m happy that i dont have such terrible guy with me before... I have a wonderful relationship before... But under some problem that we cant solve... It just end up like that... Actually I want to save the relation but thing wont go back... Unless we have a time machine that can turn back the time... (I hope so much)
Lastly, what i want to tell is that cherish whatever we have... No matter in love or it is a thing or family love...friendship dont forget... Just cherish whatever we have... Just care about it... I believe that everything that we cherish and care of will gv the same feedback to us...
Good luck with whatever we have... Remember cherish whatever we have...
3 comments:
ya,"love" is a complicated thing in the world..can oso b sensitif discussion..different people will have different perception n view it as different way..
like my friend,he wont see "love" o "couple" as a "thing"..he is enjoy his recently life,which is study life..no plan to date n no plan to hv wife n child..
on the other hand,he view "love" is playful stuff..1 9 stand is normal to him,ntg to said,he like to enjoy tis type of life..
n one more,sum1 who wan "love",wan a ppl to care him..but unfortunately,after a few yr of hard work,he also ntg to get..is sumthing wrong wif his attitude o look..
talk abt look,recently i had meet many gal that like "small type" of guy.not like b4,the big size will more prefer cz feel of "secure"..
should have one o two way of comm among couple to avoid problem built.b honest to other will let r/s more secure n more long..
duno wat to write liao la..so tired..
Can i know are u shang jau??
ya,the world is very complicated thing..mayb u dun like wat is the fact..but wat i write is according to research and pass experience,hope u can accept it..
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